Many of us feel that as we grow older, our chances of finding a soul mate grow slim. But what if the opposite were true? How does age really figure into the search for that special someone?
I believe that each decade presents a unique set of spiritual challenges and opportunities that affect the search for love. Perhaps the most surprising thing is that as we enter middle-age and beyond, our chances of finding a soul mate are better than ever.
Find Love at 20s Age
This decade is the Wild West of relationships. You are waking up to yourself and the world at large. Everything is bursting with possibilities. As the process of self-discovery accelerates-new people, independence, career options-you find yourself in a state of psychic flux. Your love life is often a reflection of this. One minute you’re enveloped in a burst of passion, and the next you can’t remember why you were so fascinated.
This is a natural, inevitable process. As you develop spiritually and personally, you are also learning about your soul mate-even if you don’t realize it. Through trial and error, you are coming to grips with what you really want out of a relationship.
You may get lucky and meet your soul mate in this decade. You may think you’ve met your soul mate, only to realize years later that it’s not the perfect match you thought it was. You may also be reluctant to commit, due to that twenty-something feeling that time is on your side. The important thing is that you follow your intuition, listen to your heart, and act with bravado. Those who date a variety of different types have the best chance of hitting the jackpot. You don’t have to be a clairsentient medium-as long as you trust the feeling of love and continue the work of self-discovery, you and your soul mate are coming closer together.
And here are 9 things that I wish someone had told me about relationships in my twenties