14. She’s Good-Looking
Do we find handsome men intimidating? Most of us would say of course. After all, if we met a movie star like Ryan Gosling or George Clooney, aka famous actors that most women consider to be super hot, we might forget our own names and not know what to say. It’s a totally normal experience. If we meet a cute guy at a party, we might have trouble talking to him at first, at least until we get to know him a bit better and feel more comfortable.
“If she’s attractive generally.”
This guy’s Reddit post proves that he finds good-looking girls to be intimidating. We might have met a lot of guys and found that nothing was happening and didn’t know why, and maybe they were intimidated by the way that we look. Sure, that might sound kind of conceited, but it doesn’t have to be like that. We should definitely have high self-esteem and feel good about ourselves. It would be awesome if guys realized that not every pretty girl is mean, but Hollywood does tend to perpetuate that idea sometimes, so we do kind of understand. Just like hot guys can be really mean, so can hot girls, but they can also be total sweethearts.
13. She’s Confident
Confidence is one of those things that we either have or we don’t. We can fake it up until a certain point. We can go on a few dates with a guy and pretend to be super cool and chill and have high self-esteem… but once he starts getting serious about us and wants to be with us for real, we might freak out. We might wonder how he could possibly want us to be his girlfriend when he seems so perfect and we’re just not.
That’s totally the wrong way to go because having confidence is a really important thing, not only in dating but in life in general. We deserve to like ourselves and there’s nothing wrong with that.
“I get intimidated by overconfident girls. I can handle really pretty and good at sports/whatever else. But if they’re cocky and confident.”
Do guys get intimidated by girls who have lots of confidence? We might have thought that the answer was probably yes, and now that we’ve seen this guy’s Reddit post, we know that is absolutely true. If we’re not confident, we might get intimidated by confident guys, so really, this works both ways and we can all relate to this feeling.